you might wonder about the title . But before you judge let me explain my point. My point is that people these days say things they don’t really mean. I mean come on, when some one despises you, and you can tell that that person DOESNT like you and cant stands you. You know that he/she is one of those hypocrites who acts nice around you and the moment you turn your back, the gossip starts. And I dont care, really, because that person is not important to me, so why should I care??? But what really bothers me is when its time to say goodbye to that person , he/she says ” I will miss you” I CANT believe that , I want to but I cant. What exactly are you going to miss in me? the gossip? pretending to like me? what?
I mean what’s the point of saying some thing you dont really mean. People are not stupid they can tell when you are lying, or pretending. And it’s not a kind of courtesy, not at all.
Dont you think that phrases such as ” I love you ” or ” I will miss you ” are over used these days ???? I sure do. So people do us a favour and dont ruin the idea of love and longing to see some one. For they have a beatiful meaning. And with your usage for these phrases, you are destroying the meaning they hold.
So do us all a favoure,When you say some thing, MEAN it or otherwise DONT say it, for it will be meaningless.
well some one is obviously is in a crappy mood.
I liked the topic and seems it spread all of the bloggers who kept saying I love you and miss you and exactly we think if it was just a flatter to make people feel special well they are wrong,they say it because they want you to love them as well you adore them:/ I can be honest that I cant lie but with missing you and loving you is just hard for me to let it out only if i really mean it ! and sarah what pissess me off is this >>> :*:*:* lool I find it easy(u knw what i mean) and whatever … :* << never tried to any friends of mine except saying *blow kisses and hugs*
hope your doing gr8 tonight;)
Lol Soso, I used to think the way you do. These two meaningful words as well as other words became cliches, but you know people have to pretend to like someone. Imagine a world that lacks compliments. All of us hate hypocrisity yet one have to respect people. It’s rude to tell someone in his face ” I hate you” or ” don’t like you”. Even though you dislike someone, to declare your feeling takes courage and it affects the recipient greatly. I liked the title a lot and the blog as well
looking forward to reading the next blog.
i think we are the same P-Ella, i dont say i love you, unless i really mean it. this xoxo thing, spread heavily on the internet after “Gossip Girl” but it doesnt annoy me that much.
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well Pella, xoxo ( just want to teas you
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Fankoosh
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well i cant imagine a world without complaints,but i didnt say its okay to tell some one in his face ” i hate you ” or ” i dont like you” , no no no not at all, that’s so rude. i beleive even if you hate some one, yet you have to respect him as long as he didnt do you any wrong.
” keep your feelings to yourself ” i guess you know when and to whom i said that
what i’m saying is; in moments like when you say goodbye to some one you dont like, dont say i’ll miss you, just say good bye , sam7ony 3la algsoor , with a smile on your face and be done with it. you dont have to pretend or lie just so that ppl will like you .
glad that you liked my blog:)
I see.
I think I misunderstood you dear.
I didn’t mean a world without complains but complaints. I got it now
Sorry for the misunderstanding frindoo
cant stop lying** not cant lie( g6eet badliya):P LoL Ok keep teasing:P
People tend to use the word just the same as any other. No actual meaning to it. it seems that whenever someone says ‘I love you’ “miss you” they don’t actually mean it. The meaning I LOVE YOU has now shrunk to a simple I love you. It has lost its significance!!!
It should be something special, not something you throw out at somebody who you’ve only known a week or two.
Love is developed over a long period of time. Yes, there are those few cases of ‘love at first sight’ but this is a very rare occurrence and shouldn’t be someone’s first priority to claim their love the first moment they see them. Love is when you would do anything to be able to see this person. It is like when you jump in front of a car and push your love out of the way to save their life. It is when you can’t stand one moment without him/her. It is when you think about him/her the first moment you wake up and the last second before you sleep at night. Love can not be duplicated. Love is love and everything else. You can not claim you love someone unless you have that special feeling deep down whenever you see that person. The word should not be thrown around like a piece of crap, but preserved for that special someone who will not leave you for another woman or man and would do anything for you to be with them and you the same. Thanks Sara =]
fankoosh i meant a world without compliments , typing mistake.
pella , never mind the badlyat . xoxo
mr cookie, i couldnt agree more….
i totally agree with every thing you said, but you made love seems as some thing exclusive to lovers only. there is the familial love, the matriarchal love, which i beleive is the strongest kind of love ever,and the love between friends .
but its definitly over used .
no thank you mr.cookie for sharing your opinion
I totally agree with you,but I think its something natural. It’s something easy to find not like the other. Anyway, keep it up the good work
i agree completely…i hate mujamalat and people that give them. e3..just be real and honest..cuz its so so obvious when someone’s being fake , and that just makes them seem pathetic.
if it is only up to compliments, its fine with me but what really bothers me is pretending, its so pathatic as you said.
I SO agree. “Love” is overrated nowadays, and people have began to say it even through short periods of time. Thanks for sharing =)